Developing a Positive Mindset

My last entry about developing a marketing philosophy got me thinking about mindset. Without turning this into some mystical or metaphysical passage it is important to grasp as soon as you can, that you are what you think about. Negativity will spawn more negativity and positivity will breed that which is positive everytime, it is a law of nature.

We all get bogged down in our lives and it is impossible to bop along with a plastered on grin all the time but that is not what having a good mindset is about. It's about focusing on what is important and being true to ourselves. Attitude is everything and the sooner this is understood and practiced the sooner we are able to bring good things into our lives.

We have to mentally train ourselves to be positive in the face of adversity. Life is difficult and dwelling on our shortcomings and challenges will only bring about more stress. It is simply counter productive to wallow in a sea of woe and pain. Embrace the most simple of blessings that most of take for granted and engrain them into your outlook.

First of all, be grateful for the things you do have. You have life. You have food, water, and shelter, and you have people who care about you. What about money? The economy is uncertain right now and money is such a huge focus for us all. We depend on it so much that it seems to dominate every aspect of our lives.

Success is often defined by money especially by outward sources. We are judged by our material wealth today more than ever. This can weigh heavily on our spirit. It is important to note without sounding like a fortune cookie that true happiness does not come from money. Money is a by-product of success not success itself.

Let me repeat that. Money is a by product of success not success itself. I did not coin the phrase "do what you love and money will follow", but I constantly remind myself of this. I need money just like anybody, but I don't let it rule me. Money allows us a lot of freedom to focus on what matters and to not be burdened by the need of it. It is crucial to develop a healthy attitude toward your life, loves, and fellow man or you will find yourself always in a state of want.

It would be impossible to read this entry and be changed immediatly as a result. However, a decision to live your life a certain way and take control over your thoughts can take place in an instant. I couldn't possibly list all my sources of inspiration right here. Some come from books or movies, some come from people or memories, some come from experience, some come from nature, and some just come from within.

Whatever you draw your inspiration and motivation from I recommend you stay in tune with it. Seek out your passions and never let your mind take that dark turn toward doubt and negativity. Drink from good books and value the simple gifts that we are given each day.

There are so many great examples to remind us, guide us and motivate us. Remember, when we control our thoughts and develop a great attitude and mindset is when we really start to live.